Do you know what 70% of Americans have opted to do during the Covid quarantine?
That’s right—after allowing honey-do lists to sit, unfinished,
for years, many Americans have decided to spend their time at home making home
a better place to be. And it makes sense; after all, if you’re going to be
stuck inside staring at an annoying but fixable problem all day, you might as
well do something about it.
It’s not just indoor projects that people are tackling—there’s
been an uptick in outdoor projects, such as landscaping or raised bed farming.
With more time on their hands and more time at home, more people are choosing
to invest in making their everyday life better.
As a leader and a student of personal growth, I love the idea. I think it’s a great trend (even if it’s not exactly my personal preference) and a good example of how people can take the lemon of Covid and make lemonade.
But it also has me wondering:
It’s one thing to say you’re going to re-tile your bathroom,
it’s something else entirely to actually have the right equipment to make that dream
possible. Without the right tools, even simple jobs become extremely difficult.
And what’s true for home improvement is true for self-improvement.
Maybe you’ve decided to let the house stay as-is and opted instead
to focus on your personal growth during this season. If that’s the case, then I
applaud you because personal growth today is the only guarantee that tomorrow
is going to get better. But to grow effectively, you need to have the right
tools in your toolbox. Otherwise, growth will become a challenge.
If you’re not sure what kind of tools you’ll need, I’m
here to help. I’ve spent my life pursuing personal growth, and I’ve found there
are a few must-have tools that not only make growth easier, they actually
accelerate the process:
Books. My first mentors were the authors of the books I read as a young
man, and that’s still true for me today. I read several books a month, often twice,
because the first time through a book, I mark it up to highlight the key points
I need to remember. The second time through a book, I focus only on the
highlights and that allows the book to mark me.
- Good Listens. Once upon a time, I had to
actually go places to hear other leaders speak, and I always made it a priority
to do so. Being exposed to the ideas of others and listening to them share
their passion in real time is an extremely helpful tool for growth. Fortunately,
with the rise of podcasting and digital
video streaming, you don’t have to leave your home to hear some of the best
and brightest leaders today. Their teaching is just a click away.
- Good Thinking. I make it a point to intentionally
spend time each day thinking. First thing in the morning, I think about my
priorities for the day. During the day I set aside time to think about the book
I’m writing or a teaching I’m developing, not to mention transformation
opportunities that I’m working on. Then, at the end of each day, I think about
how I spent my time, what I learned, and what I want to accomplish tomorrow. Time
for thinking is not just a tool for personal growth, it’s a power tool—it allows
you to do more than sheer effort alone.
- Good Conversations. Nothing improves a
person’s thinking or perspective like good conversations with other people. As
I’ve often said, all of us is smarter than one of us, and I truly appreciate how
much a smart conversation with someone else helps clarify and sometimes change
my thinking and understanding for the better.
- Good Questions. The final tool I want to
talk about is the simplest one in the box. It’s the willingness to ask
questions. A leader who is willing to ask good questions is a leader who can
unlock many a mystery, elevate many an idea, and innovate on many a project. One
of the most powerful questions a leader can ask is, “Why?” And yet many leaders
leave this tool untouched. Good Questions make Great Leaders, so this tool is a
That’s why our Enterprise exists—to add value to you so you can add value to others. Whether that’s through our blog, our books, or any of the other options available on our websites, we want to ensure that you as a leader have the tools you need for success.
I am happy to provide those tools to help you live your purpose and fulfill your potential—and I hope you’ll turn around and do the same for the people in your life.